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Just because we are moving farther away from traditional norms in practice, does not mean we are moving farther away from them in our ideals. At age forty-eight, men are nearly twice as sought after as women.”’s Alexis Madrigal wrote in an excellent response to an excerpt from Slater’s book (published in that same magazine), “It should also be noted: There isn't a single woman's perspective in this story. Or someone who was into polyamory before online dating. Instead we get eight men from the [online dating] industry.” Like most promises of the digital era, online dating hasn’t exploded all of the old norms so much as reinforced many and twisted the rest.

Perhaps the paradoxical exclusivity of online dating is at the heart of why we’re still so ambivalent about collectively embracing it.

In this video by The Atlantic, she explains how romance has moved from the private to the public realm, the significance of dating apps, and why love is still a worthwhile pursuit.

And it’s further complicated by the propensity of online daters to lie about their age or profession or marital status. “Algorithms that dating sites have spent millions of dollars to refine aren’t necessarily bad.

They’re just not as good as we want them to be, because they’re computing our half-truths and aspirational wishes.” Webb doesn’t make any value judgments about this fact of online-dating life, but it seems hard to deny that the amount of game-playing involved—and not just for singles who take it as far as she does—puts a damper on the experience for many. In a payoff worthy of Nancy Meyers movie, Webb meets and marries the man of her dreams, a witty, sexy ophthalmologist who also loves to travel and wants two children.

(The survey was commissioned by ) Today, one-third of America’s 90 million singles have used an online dating site.

I’ve lost count of the number of times people have asked me, “Have you tried Ok Cupid?

Amy Webb’s memoir, , does not start from the premise that online dating offers all the answers; rather, it is a system to be gamed.

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