Friend dating your ex girlfriend
I met both my current partners through one of my exes. I guess if it made my ex uncomfortable and we were on good terms, I'd touch base with them and see if I could do anything to help them deal with it, but ultimately that's their issue to deal with.
When I was a sophomore in high school, my best friend started dating my ex behind m back (while I was on vacation! The situation was a total mess – we got into a huge fight, I lost my best friend forever and it set the stage for a ton of fun insecurities and trust issues.
If you find yourself faced with one of those moments, we're here to here to help you keep your cool (and decide whether it's worth keeping your friend): How to Handle Your Best Friend Hooking Up With Your Ex-Girlfriend.
More times than not, going after your buddy’s ex is off limits and fully violates any type of guy code by which you might abide.
Such a situation, of course, can be tricky, and must be handled with care.
For example, ‘How While this situation might yield an unfavorable response based on the rules of guy code, Jennifer Kelman, LCSW and relationship expert, says that although it might be considered faux pas, it’s unnatural to think it can’t or won’t happen.
While it’s best to approach your friend for a discussion prior to making a move or pursuing a relationship, Kelman suggests that you don’t need to get permission from your friend, either.
In friendships, there are the best of times, and the worst of times.
And then there are those awful, unpoetic moments that even a great mind like Charles Dickens could never comprehend, like when your best boy decides it would be completely fine if he hooked up the girl who remorselessly tossed your heart in a meat grinder.
Despite the fact that basic girl code rules say we can’t date our best friend’s ex (unless we have her permission and even then, ), people always do it anyway.